One of my favorite memories from last summer was a bright Sunday afternoon when K-Fab and I went for a walk. Not for exercise. Not to walk the dog (he wasn’t here yet). But just because she said, “Mom, can we go for a walk?”.
Typically, this was hard for me. I’m often goal oriented with plans, lists and agendas. Why would I want to meander around the neighborhood? I like walking briskly to burn off the dessert I ate the night before! Walk with a 5 year – old!!? Do you know how s l o w that is???
So when she asked me, I decided to go against the productive person inside myself and just go for the sake of enjoying time with my precious daughter – walk her pace. Stop where she wanted to stop. Look at the things she wanted to look at.
And it was such a great gift.
What would you guess we talked about? Grass? Dogs? Kindergarten? Clouds? Hannah Montana?
No.
Micro-financing.
Seriously.
She began asking about people around the world who are in need of food and water – and different ways to help them. Since she had recently learned to knit, I explained the concept to her in reference to that (a woman who gets a loan to buy yarn in order to knit items to sell, so she can provide food for her family). I remember praising God for those moments of walking down the sidewalk in the warm sun, talking to my 5-year-old about how to help people on the other side of the earth. Amazing.
About a 1/2 mile from home, we stumbled upon a giant fuzzy caterpillar. So we hurried back to get our bikes and a bug jar to try to capture a new little pet. I loved seeing her enjoy something so simple.
The entire walk and bike ride lasted about 2 hours (she was determined to walk over four miles). That day was such a great reminder for me to slow down and enjoy the everyday moments with my kids.
Not everything needs an agenda. 🙂